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We are an Anglican Church in the Villa Park neighborhood in south-west Denver.  We seek to share in the life of God together by re-defining and re-orienting everything around the gospel of Jesus Christ. We follow a liturgical form of worship and welcome friends, neighbors, and strangers alike. 

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Spiritual Friendship

When people think about growing in their relationship with God, they often think of classes, or books, or retreats.  All of those are very helpful, but we believe that transformation also occurs in the mundane aspects of life: family, friends, work, personal devotion, and in the sheer perseverance of following Jesus even on the difficult days.

Throughout Scripture and church history, the spiritual discipline of Spiritual Friendships have been a key component to personal, day-by-day transformation.  Spiritual Friends talk regularly about their faith, share normal life together, encourage one another, and challenge one another to welcome God's gospel in their lives. It's a simple but powerful idea!  The practice of Spiritual Friendship has been largely lost in our culture, and we want to help recover it.

There are two stages to our Spiritual Friendship ministry at Church of the Advent:

1.  Relational Discipleship

To get you started on the journey of Spiritual Friendship, we offer a 12-week process called Relational Discipleship that pairs you with another person at Advent and allows you to explore what God is doing in your life, right now, together. 

What does it look like?”

Relational Discipleship at Advent is a process, not a program.  We meet you where you’re at in your spiritual journey, working together with you to choose a guide to walk through the journey with you.  After that initial phase, every pair looks different…but here’s a typical scenario.  Once a week, you and a guide will sit down over coffee and a lesson that reveals some aspect of God’s grand story.  You’ll chat about the week, pray together, and then dive into the material, asking “How does my story weave into God’s story?”  In the process, you’ll probably be exposed to some new ways of following Jesus and be encouraged to incorporate them into your day-to-day routine.

"What curriculum do you use?"

Relational Discipleship is based on a 12-week curriculum written by Pastor Rob & Pastor Ken, with input from others in the congregation. It's one part Bible Study, one part reflection, & one part discussion starter.  The curriculum is a resource intended to guide your conversations, as well as serve as ongoing resource for helping you live the Christian life. You can download the Relational Discipleship Booklet here 

What have others said?”

People who have gone through the process before (and there are now almost 100 of them!) have testified that Relational Discipleship connected them into our Advent family more deeply, led to emotional and relational healing, helped them discern God’s leading more clearly, or gave them a new sense of purpose and mission in life. Every journey has been unique!

2. Spiritual Friendships

After Relational Discipleship, we encourage you to continue the spiritual discipline of Spiritual Friendship. You might pursue a Spiritual Friendship with someone you're already close to, or you might seek out someone whose life you respect to walk with you.

The three ingredients of any healthy Spiritual Friendship are:

1. Regularity - It's important to set a goal for how often you want to connect, simply because life will get in the way otherwise! 

2. Intentionality - Spiritual Friends, quite simply, talk about and share their spiritual journeys.  For some this may be awkward, and for others it may be easy.  But we all need someone to share the journey.  This ingredient is what distinguishes the discipline of Spiritual Friendship from other friendships.  Spiritual Friends are intentional in centering their friendship around God. Other friendships may also include spiritual encouragement, and even deep sharing, but Spiritual Friendships are formed and nurtured for this particular purpose.

3. Flexibility - Even as we seek to be intentional, it's crucial to keep in mind that there are MANY ways to share our spiritual lives! Here are a few suggestions, but their could be many, many more:

Study the Bible or a meaningful book together

Dialogue about where God has been working in your lives

Confess sin to one another

Pray with and for one another

Contact Pastor Ken Robertson for ideas on how to start walking the journey of Spiritual Friendship!

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